Holding Out

Somewhere around the world, next door, or even in the next room, someone is humping (having sexual intercourse) and imagine if you weren't part of that club or you had your membership revoked. I like to get it in (pun intended) just as much as the next nympho. Trust me probably more, so I couldn't fathom the thought of celibacy. Believe it or not, its going on out there. With the spread of std's and baby mama/daddy drama on the rise, there are a lot of shook people out there. Like this couple for example. She stopped putting out. You'd think he was smiling like the guy from the Enzite commercial but that's a grimace on his face.

Are they really happy? He's not getting none. Is that a real smile???

More couples are really waiting till marriage or at least until they can afford the consequences. Of course its usually not the man's idea but for the sake of peace on earth and the

promise of good things to come, so we some succumb to the pressure and are up for the challenge. I wouldn't last but a few hours before throwing in the white flag but that's just me. I try not to manhandle myself too much but in a situation such as this, that's all I can see myself doing, hey we're grown here. Now my question is, is this healthy? First for the individuals and second for the relationship?

I dont want to be him

Sex isn't everything but it is damn good and Dr. Ruth and all those sex therapist say its healthy. If they went to school and got certified to tell me that, well shit I has to hold some weight. Are you doing a disservice to your health by not humping or are you doing my relationship a great deal of justice? No sex can make a weak man or woman want to cheat. Even feel as if their partner has another boo on the side or undesirable. It can also bring to people together in ways they've never imagined. Open up communication or find new ways to enjoy each other. Talk to me.

Can Holding Out keep me from being this guy?